Saturday, 21 September 2013

Jeremiah 8:18 - 9:1; Luke 16:1-13

I’d like to draw rather a long bow between the Jeremiah reading and the Gospel text (The parable of the Shrewd Manager). The one is about grief – the grief of Jeremiah for his erring Israelite people, who have turned their hearts from God and worshipped idols.  This passage might echo the very heart of God’s grief too, when we stray into unholy territory. The other is about a very shrewd business man.
We might feel like Jeremiah sometimes because many of our own people here in Australia have also fallen off the faith wagon;  they have turned their backs on the Christian faith which nurtured our nation in its infancy. And like Jeremiah, we long for our nation to turn back to belief and embrace the grace, mercy and peace of Christ.
But the first, unlikely thing I thought about both these passages when I read them was that grief and redemption can go hand in hand. We can’t ask for God’s forgiveness, until we can see our error.  We first must grieve over our fallen state, before we can seek God’s pardon. But people these days have no desire for all that confession and admitting to a fallen nature. They don’t want the clarity to see themselves as they really are, before God. They have no need of Him;  they do not grieve over their hedonistic lifestyle or their embracing of the very worst of depravity, gambling, pornography and so on.  They see no need for repentance. They have no need for forgiveness.  Perhaps a little shrewd spirituality on our part is called for.
That’s where the dodgy business manager comes in.  In the Luke reading, we have this off-putting story about the Manager who appears to conduct some very dishonest business deals on behalf of his Master, yet still comes out smelling of roses. He manages to keep onside with the boss and his clients, and keep his job at the same time – all with some clever manoeuvring and deals made with the debtors. He was very shrewd and he was definitely thinking outside the box. 
This parable has many layers about our attitude to money, to the poor, to redemption, but in essence one of its main themes is Jesus saying to his followers “If only you lot were as crafty and concerned and as focussed about MY business, as this wily fox was about saving his own interests and reputation. If only you would think outside the box now and then;  if only you would take every opportunity to showcase my Business, as well as this Manager looked out for his.  Take a lesson. Be as frank with yourselves and as clear headed about My Kingdom as these astute operators in the secular world.
I say again.  Grief can be redemptive.  This is out of the box thinking.  When I first heard this notion, I found it very confronting. I’ve proved it to be true though.  With God, any grief can have a redemptive quality; not just our grief when people stray from faith, but personal grief, even communal grief.   Grief and suffering have a spiritual shrewdness about them;  grief can lead to insightfulness;  it can sharpen and refine faith.  The grief someone feels over a failed marriage can lead them to understand why it failed;  it can redeem them from making the same mistake twice.   When God and grief are spliced together, the result is often redemption – redemption of many different kinds – not just eternal salvation.
You will have heard in the media that last month was the 50th anniversary of Martin Luther King’s “I have a dream” speech.  It’s a well-known speech. Just two weeks after that speech, in September 1963, the 16th Street Baptist Church in Birmingham, Alabama, was bombed and 4 little black girls were killed.  Birmingham Alabama was no stranger to violence, especially this church, because it was a gathering place for black Christians who campaigned for civil rights.  But the violence was mainly perpetrated on black people by white supremists – this was the case in the church bombing. Eventually, in 1964, Lyndon Johnson passed the Civil Rights bill and this ensured that black people were equal in law, and it banned segregation.  But they still couldn’t vote. And there was another significant piece of oratory, before laws were passed to secure this right.
In 1964, Fanny Lou Hamer, a negress, addressed the all-white, anti-civil-rights Democratic National Convention.  This is part of her description of the violence perpetrated on her and her race..  Fanny Lou told how she had been carried to the county gaol, because she had encouraged black people to be registered to vote.  Play sound clip.   She told how she was put in a cell next to a young black woman, Miss Ivester Simpson.  She described how she could hear this woman being beaten.  Her attackers were shouting at her, calling her nigger and other awful names, and making her say “Yes Sir”.  Fanny Lou told how her screams reverberated through the cell.  She said that after a while Ivester Simpson began to pray, and she prayed for her attackers.  She asked the Lord to have mercy on them, and forgive them for what they were doing.  She was, through her suffering, asking for redemption, not for herself, but for those beating her. Her prayers for them became, eventually, redemptive for the nation of America – redemptive in the sense that it was freed from its evil racism and inequality.
The whole equal rights movement in America began with black Christian people.  It was based, in its purest form, in non-violence and redemptive suffering – Dr King’s Movement had as it’s motto “To redeem the soul of America”. The black people were suffering but redemption would come to America because of how they behaved in that suffering as Ebester’s prayer so powerfully exampled.  I am convinced that this is God’s best, most effective work;  that of turning bad into good, turning grief into joy;  turning wretched ungodliness into redemption. It has power beyond our reckoning or imagination. This is the work of the Kingdom, about which we must be so shrewd.
It is perhaps to draw a long bow to call this spiritual shrewdness, but the parable introduces us to the astute man who became righteous – not by begging for mercy and praying on his knees – but by forgiving the debts of others in the Master’s name. A key component of God’s Kingdom is all about forgiveness, mercy and grace to the undeserving.  And sometimes, as we walk across the bridge of our own grief, or someone else’s, we cross into that most shrewd and unlikely of God’s gifts – that of redemption and grace to help in time of need.  We cross the bridge of suffering, into God’s grace.
Just as the Shrewd Manager was retained, and benefitted from his prudence, Jesus uses this example to assure us that as we are shrewd managers with his forgiveness and grace, He will entrust us with the riches of heaven. As we forgive the debts of others, we ourselves are forgiven;  as we struggle with our own suffering, we become perhaps, the catalyst for another’s redemption, or even our own.
The dodgy manager could have followed the convention and been given his marching orders or dragged through the courts;  instead he made some succinct decisions and thought “what can I do to bring good out of bad;  what can I do for a positive outcome? 
What can we do for a positive outcome in the face of either our nations backsliding or grief?  We can decide to be astute and prudent with our emotional energy and spend it praying for others. We can be the vehicle of redemption through God’s amazing ability to bring good out of bad. Packaged up with grief is opportunity for the Kingdom of God to be passed on to people who may not receive it from a person who is powerful and with well-established social prominence.
It’s not that we want to experience grief or disempowerment.  We don’t want others to have it either, but let’s remember that God is never defeated by grief;   God’s Kingdom was started with grief and suffering on the cross.  God, who is the convener of life and death, the author of redemption, used grief very shrewdly – outside the box of what we think should happen, to bring redemption to us, to others, and especially to those who hurt us.

Forgiveness looms large in this because it’s not the norm – the norm is to hate those who hurt abuse and use us, but like the woman in the cell in Birmingham, we can pray for those who hurt us – God can take that attitude, those prayers, that resolve, to release and grow his Kingdom in very powerful ways.  Oh that we can strive to be this shrewd with his Kingdom to his glory and for the redemption of others.

Wednesday, 4 September 2013

What do we do when people hurt us?


What do we do when people hurt us?  How do we cope with the wounds?  How do we go from brokenness to healing?

Perhaps our first instinct is to hit out at those who have hurt us.  We want to hurt back.  This never worked for me.  I didn’t really take this path when I was battling my own hurts from people I trusted.

I tended to become introspective, and that’s not a bad thing in itself, but I spent too much time being bitter, self-pitying and wanting justice.  The justice thing is difficult.  It’s natural to want justice;  to have our name cleared, or to be vindicated.  It’s also natural to want to be recompensed for what we’ve lost.  But when we stray from wanting justice, to wanting revenge, we are entering a cavern of self-destruction.

But there are better things than revenge, and in my experience justice and vindication can be hard to achieve because it often depends on others and you can’t change others. 

Better than justice, is healing for you, regardless of what happens to those who’ve hurt you.  It may be good to try and get justice for yourself, but this isn’t always possible.  Healing, on the other hand, is something which allows you to triumph, no matter what has happened to you.

You being healed, happy and strong is the best kind of justice and retribution.  Hankering after “getting back at people” is one of the most destructive forces you can foster.  But it won’t destroy them;  it will destroy you.

If you find a way to hurt your abusers, there won’t be the relief you crave.  Or if there is, then you are a long way down the journey to becoming just like them.  Are you sure that’s what you want?

My advice to you is to spend your emotional energy on finding your own self. If you don't want to repeat the pattern, you must understand what mistakes you made, or why you trusted the wrong people or became vulnerable to victimisation. Sometimes these things are out of our control.  It's been my experience that some people will hurt you because they like doing it, and because they can.  They must face that on that Great Day when all will be revealed and all will be called to account.  But you must concern yourself only with yourself.

Use your energy in positive and constructive ways.  Leave the resentment and hatred of those who’ve hurt you, with God.

There may be people reading this blog who find the image of a Christian God unacceptable because of some hurt or abuse suffered at the hands of some phoney person in the organised church.

Go past them and find an image of God you are comfortable with;  whether it’s a gentle Shepherd Jesus, or a father figure God, or even a dying Jesus, asking forgiveness of His killers.  Put your negative emotions and feelings into the hands of this God.  Get them out of your soul and into the heart of the great Being who made us all. Acknowledge it’s there – acknowledge the destructive emotions, then say “I’m not listening to you. Go away”. And give them to God. Imagine them flying off from your mind and body, into the great Cosmos, and there they dissolve. You may have to take this action over and over again.  It may not feel like it, but each time, you are leaving a little more of it behind.

I also cannot stress enough,  the benefit of physical occupation during times of grief, anxiety or agitation. The physicality of moving or using your hands, especially if it’s creative, somehow provides a channel;  a mechanism which “uses up” or releases the negative emotions.  Find something you like doing;  something which makes you live in the moment. It might be gardening, or playing golf – any occupation in which you are only thinking about doing that thing. This also releases good chemicals into your body which helps you stay happy and balanced.

For me, it was bushwalking. I wore out at least two pairs of stout shoes tramping through the beautiful mid north coast environment of NSW in Australia.  I walked, with a social group, every Friday, through beach scapes and forest;  climbed the Fire Lookout at Comboyne plateau – it felt like I sat on the top of the world as I looked out across to the valley below.  Gardening was also a wonderful diversion;  knitting, sewing;  these too kept anxiety at bay. You are a strong, resilient person;  you can find strength you didn't know you had.  I did.  Peace be with you.

Monday, 19 August 2013

Prayers of the People

Lord Christ, who loves us all with equal measure, we bring to your care the children in our world whose souls and bodies have been ravaged by abuse of all kinds;  of malice;  of neglect;  of evil.  We lift these little ones to your protection.  We pray that You will put your hedge around them so that there will never be damage which is beyond healing. We pray that you will begin to knit their souls back together again.  We pray for teachers, friends, neighbours who come into contact with children such as these.  We pray for Agencies whose staff strive to rescue children from harm;  theirs is a difficult task and we ask for wisdom and efficiency for them. Bless adults who have terrible memories of abuse or trauma.  Give them coping mechanisms and healing.  Have mercy on them as they attempt to overlay their bad memories with good ones.

We commit into your care today, those who will contemplate suicide;  those for whom this seems an answer to the pain of their lives.

Bless those with degenerative illness, especially Motor Neuron disease and Cystic Fibrosis.  Bring us closer to knowing the cause and cure of these illnesses.  For those who suffer from Schizophrenia, we pray.  We ask that they will receive very real help and understanding. 

Bless those who are grieving, who are disappointed, disillusioned;  for those who are tempted beyond what they think they can bear. For those unfairly victimized, give your deliverance.

We pray for those who mourn:  for lost loved ones;  for children straying;  for broken relationships;  for personal hurts and disappointments.

The winds of melancholy blow over us all at times and we can’t sense your presence.  We look for signs and miracles and wonder why you are silent in the face of our suffering, and learn at last that the best of your power is your quiet abiding in our hearts,  and the imparting of your beautiful character to us.  You bring good out of bad and remake our suffering, until changed from glory to glory, we are more like you. We still believe you, though we can’t always understand, and it’s this kind of faith which can break down strongholds and summon the angel host.

You use the hardships in our lives to lead us to a deeper abiding in the steadfast strength of your love. You grieve with us when we grieve and you remake the suffering until our souls are bright with the warmth of your flawless and beautiful character and we are strong and happy.

Our heads are full of dreams;  our hands are full of chattels.  Lord, we offer to you the things which are most important to us.  Sometimes they obscure our connection to you.  We cling to their importance.  But the shadow of the cross will always fall on us;  we are your people.  Help us to live with a clear, uncluttered vision of the things which You hold dear. 

We look to Jesus, light of the world, comforter, counsellor, prince of peace, author of love, who cannot lie, who cannot cheat and who will never lead us anywhere which is unsafe for our souls. 

Christ, whose countenance is always kindly turned towards our frailty, give us grace to run bravely the race of faith, to fight steadfastly the good fight; to love all who cross our path.  

Christ, who has promised a harvest of righteousness to those who sow in peace, give us your holy presence today, that we may see our way clearly, without the shadow of ego and willfulness. Amen
 
This prayer is the intellectual property of Susan Starr. Please feel free to use it in Christian ministry, and acknowledge it as my work.

Thursday, 8 August 2013

Auschwitz, Arthur Dodds, and the swans

Some time ago, I watched a programme about Auschwitz and the story of a man who had been a prisoner there.  I think it was featured on Songs of Praise.  It was the story of an English man, now very elderly, who had been held in the POW part of Auschwitz.  He had seen and heard all the terrible things which had been done to the Jews by the Nazis.  When the Russian and American troops came in 1945, he had been released by walking 700 kms to meet them.  When he got home to England, he had become very depressed by the horror of his experience.  He spent his time walking through the English countryside. 
 
One day, as he sat on the shore of a lake, he watched a pair of swans.  The male swan came up to him and put it’s beak on his shoulder, very near to his face.  He was wary because he thought that if he moved away, the swan would peck him, so he stayed there keeping very still. After a little while, he  began to feel a great peace come over him;  he felt the presence of God descend upon him.  He looked at the 2 beautiful swans and thought that if there were lovely creatures like this still in the world, what business had he to be so depressed.  He said it was as though the swan understood what he’d been through.  He felt the great burden of sorrow fall away.  It was a very moving story.  He was a man of faith and had been sustained through his ordeal by reading the Bible 2½ times over. His name was Arthur Dodds.

Thank you God for your gifts of beauty, resilience, courage, healing and faith.

“…… Look! God’s dwelling-place is now among the people, and he will dwell with them. They will be his people, and God himself will be with them and be their God. He will wipe every tear from their eyes. There will be no more death or mourning or crying or pain, for the old order of things has passed away.

It is done. I am the Alpha and the Omega, the Beginning and the End. To the thirsty I will give water without cost from the spring of the water of life.  Those who are victorious will inherit all this, and I will be their God and they will be my children.” Rev 21:3b to 4

Tuesday, 6 August 2013

Of poverty and Providence; of being content with what we have.

I fall so easily to feeling sorry for myself.  These past few weeks have been so busy and I never have great reserves of strength, so I get depleted easily.  If I'm not careful, depletion can lead to depression, simply because I haven't the strength to throw it off. It wasn't helped by a man who has a three times the income I have, telling me about his lovely holiday, which was at a Beach Resort, and for which he only had to pay half price.
 
The arrow of comparing my life with his, struck home and I felt that God must love him more than me, because I can't afford a holiday every year, certainly not one at a Resort for half price! 
 
It is never wise to compare our lives and our losses with other people's, who seem not to have much go wrong. When I indulge in this self-destructive activity, it always brings me low.
 
There are certainly people of my acquaintance who seem to fall in this "comfortable" category.  I often wonder why this is so, and how this equates to a Providential God.
 
But I don't actually want to debate if God is providential or not, in this blog.
 
It led me to think of other people, whose lives have been defined and cauterised by loss and suffering, and great want.  People caught in the trap of Hitler's evil madness;  people who lived through the Great Depression;  the Irish through the famine; the servant class in England;  the outcaste in India;  the poor in Africa.  And I realize how lucky I am.
 
I think there has always been the privileged and rich few, and the poor disadvantaged masses.  To be fair there will also be a great multitude who are in between to varying degrees, but who basically have enough.  And even though I am down the lower end of my country's income-level, Australia is one of the most affluent countries in the world, so I certainly have enough. 

No matter which system governs, it will always be the same - there will always be, to varying degrees, the few rich and the many poor, because this is what money does - it divides people to classes.  There will always be, in the heart of man, the desire to accumulate more and more wealth.  This is an original flaw - an indelible line on man's carnal blueprint.  The opposite trait is also there;  the desire to help and ease the burden of the poor, but this is grafted on by God's influence.  It is a tenuous, fragile vine, susceptible always to the decay of greed and self-interest.  So, money and the business of getting more of it will always be the deciding factor in how the world's people live.  Those who love money the most, very often end up with a great deal of it.
   
The only sure thing about our lives, is death.  It's absolutely indisputable.  But we spend our lives pretending it isn't going to happen.  We hurtle, unprepared and in denial, towards our own demise.  We spend our whole life's energy amassing as much wealth and status as we can but when we stand at death's threshold, a higher power will tell us we can't take our stash beyond;  that it is not viable currency and that another measure will be used to weight our worth, stamp our passport and determine our destination. 

So it's better to give thanks for what we have, live simply and with contentment for what we have been given by a Providential God, without comparing what we think he's given others.

prayer of thankfulness

Lord of all, we thank you for the abundance of the essential things we enjoy;  for fresh water, good food, adequate shelter, excellent medical services, safety.  Bless with abundance, those who have less than we do.

We thank you for lavish supply of the simple things;  hot showers, clean sheets, the smell of fresh washing;  of rain on dry earth; for every colour imagined by a creative and generous God, we give you thanks.

We thank you for the rain falling today on our earth;   for the emerging food crops across our region;  thank you for the farmers who planted them.  We pray for a good harvest and a growing sense amongst these practical and innovative people, of the need for safety precautions in their workplace.



Saturday, 3 August 2013

St Clements, in the wheat paddocks

Some time ago, I attended an "Art for the Soul" at St Clements, Galong, near Goulburn in NSW, Australia.  It's a monastery run by the shared ministry of the Redemptorist congregation and the Sisters of St Josephs.  The buildings are beautiful and date from the early 1800's.  For those reading from other countries, this will not seem old to you, but in Australia, this is nearly as old as our white nation! (Indigenous peoples lived here for thousands of years before white settlement in 1788)

The Monastery is now the home of retired Sisters and Priests, and is also used for conferences and Retreats for Christian people.  It's set in the rolling hills of the surrounding countryside.  Wheat and Canola crops stretch away to the horizon in all directions. 

There is a cemetery on the property.  It's where the monks and priests from the Monastery are buried. 
 When I was on my Creative Writing retreat, I walked one morning to the Cemetery.  It was in October, which is our spring, and when the Joe Blakes start to wake up from their winter somnolence.  We have some very poisonous and deadly snakes in Australia and because the Monastery is in farming country, we are really trespassing on their habitat. 

 
So I was aware as I made my way down and up the lane to the graves, that I would need to keep an eye out for the dreaded red-bellied brown snake, or the black snake, or even the deadly copper-headed snake. 
 
I was a little scared, but I grew up on a farm and know that if I encountered a snake, it would try it's best to get away.  But you just need to be aware that if you accidentally step on one, or try and corner it, you can be bitten. So I wondered what I would do if I was bitten when I was on my own, some 5kms away from the buildings.
 
For a moment, I felt fearful and exposed and alone.  Then I thought of all the people who live all their moments with this kind of fear, multiplied many times, and from many sources.  People who live in refugee camps;  people who live where violent militant armies hold power;  people who must go miles through bush and unsafe places, to get water or food; people who live in unsafe neighbourhoods.
 
I thought of how unsafe they must feel every day from threat of violence or capture or oppression.
 
I prayed for their safety.